Men tend to think the more they invest in the girl, the more she’ll appreciate and love them. Sadly, even though you could be dropping big bucks on her and giving her all the attention in the world, it doesn’t mean she feels the same. That’s why you need to learn the signs she’s using you. Below are top possible signs which indicates that a girl is playing you for fun or better still she is using you.
She often needs her space. Okay, so she hung out with you on the weekend but now, she needs her space. Treating you like every other guy. But you thought you had something special, right? This is probably going to lead you to wonder ‘is she using me’ and you’d probably be right. Right when you feel discouraged, she comes back, reeling you back in. When she takes her space from you, she’s probably weighing up her other options.
Her people don’t know you. She has friends, let’s not be ignorant. But you’ve never met them before. Or if you have, maybe once or twice. Her friends are the ones that are going to critique you, but she doesn’t even introduce you to them. That’s because she doesn’t see you as someone she’s going to be with. Rather, you’re a stepping stone to the next guy.
She’s into your bank account. Unfortunately, this is one of the most obvious signs she’s using you. You may hate your job and complain about it all the time, but she loves it. She’s usually a great listener when it comes to your bank account and financial status. Why? Because that’s one of the major reasons she’s with you. If not, who would buy her everything she wants and more?
Your family and friends don’t like her. It’s highly likely that your friends have met her first before your family. The good thing about friends and family is that they’re usually upfront and honest with you. In other words, they don’t like her. At the same time, she’s trying to push you further away from them, trying to shift your attention onto her and only her. It’s a tactic to keep you all to herself, but only when it suits her.
She’s only into you at certain times of the day. This sounds weird but have you noticed that she only hangs out with you before the evening or only after 10 pm? It’s strange behavior but completely makes sense. If it’s after 10 pm, she may only see you as a booty call and doesn’t want to invest any more time into you. Before the evening, she isn’t interested in spending her nights beside you. She’s simply putting you on shifts to suit her. It’s one of the signs she’s using you because otherwise the time of day just wouldn’t matter.
She’s always slow to reply to you. Whether it’s via text message or phone call, she’s not quick to get back to you. Of course, some people are too busy at work to reply, but you always have a minute to quickly reply to someone you care about. Especially in today’s world where we’re all glued to our phones. But if she takes hours to reply, she doesn’t really care and that’s simply because she’s keeping you around for what she wants.
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